"Already always living"...do you suffer from this? The primary symptom is that of projecting the past into the future...assuming what has (already) happened before to you, will (always) happen again. Therefore, you stay stuck in repetitive patterns and you live your life like a broken record. You have simply forgotten the future and you are predicting the past.

Am I describing you? Want to change that? Read on...

According to the story of Merlin the Magician, he lived from the future into the present, and that was his "magic". He really did know what was going to happen because he had truly already been there.

What would happen if you lived in "Merlin-time"? In doing so, you would live today as if it were your most splendid tomorrow, and therefore, be nothing but totally fulfilled with your every yesterday. Sound intriguing?....

You can live this way. All it requires is a conscious focus and some forward, purposeful action. Write down how that most splendid tomorrow would be. Make it "big", meaning that you would live free of the influence of the past...no fear, no apprehension. Then, begin to l ive your best tomorrow, today.

Would you drive your car by steering your rear-view mirror? Of course not!! You drive your car by putting your hands on the wheel and accelerating forward. Do the same with your life...live forward, not backwards.

There is a perfect life for you. It is a life that fits you, and only you, perfectly. It is a life that allows for errors and mistakes, but it is perfect because it is 100% you! It is your future, and it is here today. Take your eyes off the rear-view mirror and look forward, put your hands on the wheel, and accelerate forward into your greatest future. Make today your greatest tomorrow!!

Ken Donaldson

Ken Donaldson, the REALationship Coach, has been based in Tampa Bay, Florida offering counseling, coaching, and educational programs since 1987. He is a licensed mental health counselor; board certified as an addictions professional and clinical hypnotherapist; and certified as a master relationship coach. Ken is a graduate of the University of South Florida, the Institute for Life Coach Training and the Relationship Coaching Institute. He has been exclusively in private practice since 1993.

Ken is the author of the new breakthrough life and relationship success book Marry YourSelf First! Saying ?I Do? to a Life of Passion, Power and Purpose. The material in this book is a result of Donaldson?s 15+ years of clinical counseling and coaching with thousands of individuals and couples. In this book, he reveals what he has discovered as the 20 core Principles of Passion, Power and Purpose. When these principles are applied to your life you can overcome self-limiting patterns and create abundant happiness, fulfillment and success in your life and relationships.

Donaldson?s primary message from this book is to ?Master Your Life and Your Relationships!? Purchasers of this book are eligible for free coaching and educational programs to support and promote optimal growth and success.

Ken founded the REALationship Coaching programs empower people to have more successful lives, businesses and relationships by building a powerful relationship with themselves first.

Included are the monthly Saturday Series workshops and the REAL Talk Forums. These programs are for couples and individuals alike, and help the participants live the most passionate and balanced lives possible.

He also facilitates the Marry YourSelf First program that assists singles to have more successful relationships and more satisfying lives. The graduates of this program leave with a clear vision of who they are, what they want, and how to get it.

In addition, he offers the Partners for Life programs for both pre-committed and committed couples that provide the tools and resources to help couples create relationships that are both lasting and fulfilling. Couples report that they have deeper intimacy and more fun as a result of utilizing the tools from these programs.

Ken also offers education and training programs for businesses and community organizations on a variety of personal growth and business improvement topics.