Some people actually believe that believe in a God gives them a sense of belonging that is needed for proper mental health. These same people tend to believe that those who are loners will have shorter life expectancies, which could be avoided if they only believed in God. This simply is not so. Most loners in fact do not die early, as they have hobbies and interests that are beyond the common man, which keep their minds alert and busy far into their 80s, 90s and 100s. Most centurians are loners by nature. In the book; Party of One: The Loners Manifesto by Anneli Rufus it shows that the psychiatrists and psychologists have been wrong about loners and lonerism for decades and in actuality many of them are the ones who are the most innovative, brilliance and the major movers of societies and civilizations over the last 5000 years. Some religious folks believe that human belonging is an innate need of the species, but in reality it is only needed for those who lack self-esteem and are not natural leaders. The need to belong is an admission of weakness and proof positive that the individual is afraid of life's realities. Loners on the other hand do not need a God or to ask forgiveness or ask for help from a fictitious invisible friend. This would indicate they are in better proper mental health than those that believe in a God. Loners live happier, more productive, healthier lives fan of those that turn themselves over to a God, which is only in their minds. This is why loners look and feel more healthy then their religious counterparts. Often, religious folks wish to help loners, because there is something different about them that the religious folks thinking is not right. In fact the loner has a higher self-esteem and does not need their help and specifically does not want it. You see, loners live in reality. Some people believe that loners hold in all their anger and frustrations and then blow up with emotional outbursts at those who are trying to help them. Of course, those that are trying to help them do not realize they do not want their help, because they do not value it or their advice to come join a group of folks who will accept them as long as they give up all of their observations, thoughts and beliefs and then adopt the group's beliefs. It is amazing that the loners are the ones that propel society and society wants their information and knowledge, innovations and experiences and so desperately needs their help and then secretly despises them because they challenge the status quo, religious beliefs system and political correctness of society. Please consider all this in 2006. |
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